Skip to content
People · Origin

Origin

Where we come from shapes how we communicate, what we value and how we read a situation. Good teams start by understanding that context.

Scroll
Family of origin and culture

Where we come from shapes how we work

Culture is a sometimes intangible word that, in practice, comes down to how people show up. It is defined by where we come from, our family and our background, and by what we value and the behaviour that matches those values. Setting culture is a deliberate act. It has to be reinforced constantly, drip-feeding the values, the expected behaviour and the ways people are meant to communicate into the organisation until they become how things are done.

Where we come from

Where we come from matters because it defines where people come from. Understanding where someone grew up, and what that looked like, becomes especially important when working with people from different ethnic groups and, in particular, from different countries.

A good culture makes people feel that their background is understood. It also takes that background into account when defining what the culture of the organisation looks like, and reinforces it through both deliberate and inferred action.

A diverse group of people standing together
Belief and trust between colleagues

Trust is the speed of change

A healthy culture engenders trust by listening to its people. That puts one-on-ones and feedback at the centre of company culture, because trust is built person to person, not in town halls.

Value + behaviour = culture

Plenty of companies have their values on the wall, yet far fewer actually live them out. The gap between the stated value and the lived behaviour shows up as inconsistency, confusion and cynicism.

The remedy is to talk openly, across the company and within each team, about what the values mean and which behaviours go with them, and then to choose to live them out. That builds a culture of accountability, where people encourage one another when they live up to the values and call one another out when they fall short.

A team living out its values at work
Two people communicating directly and warmly

Clear and kind

Culture is created when we communicate clearly and directly, with kindness and grace. Within any cultural context it is important to understand what clear and kind actually look like, and for a team to agree how its people want others to be direct with them while still showing kindness and grace.

Getting that agreement right creates clear communication, and engenders trust and collaboration between colleagues.

Book a conversation

Start with a short call about your people and your teams. We will help you work out where to begin.